Saturday, January 19, 2013

College {at} Home-Why?

I get a lot of questions about college.  After all, I am a homeschool graduate, so I "need" to gain my "freedom" and go off to college.  (I use the words in quotations very loosely.)  I am not saying a college education is bad, but I am getting ahead of myself!  I would like to share my answers to the, "3 Why's of College at Home..."
{1.}  "Why at home?"
What's so special about being home, in the first place?  I am so glad you asked!  :)  According to the Bible (our greatest guidebook), daughters stayed under their father's protection, until the Lord brought their husbands, if marriage was His plan.  For example, the story of Isaac and Rebekah (Genesis 24) shows that Rebekah was still in her father's care, when Abraham's servant met her at the well.  She was spending her days serving her family.  Another example, is Jacob and Rachel (Genesis 29).  Even Esther was under her guardian's (cousin's) protection, when she was summoned to the king (Esther 2).  With that said, I am a firm believer that daughters are supposed to stay under their father’s/parent’s protection, until the Lord brings their husbands, if He so wills.  Therefore, “going off to college” is not an option, for me.  I find such joy in being a daughter-at-home!
{2.} "Why do you want a college education?"
My heart’s desire is to be a stay-at-home mom/wife (Titus 2:4-5), therefore I don’t need a degree to get a job. I am pursuing my BA, for the sole purpose of being prepared, in case our nation requires a college education to homeschool your children. 
{3.} "Why CLEP's?"
My mom and dad prayed for years for a way to do “college” at home...even when I was a little!  The Lord brought CLEP’s into our lives and we haven’t looked back since! We are so grateful for this option and praise the Lord for His faithfulness to answer our prayers.  Pursuing a degree through CLEPing allows me to stay at home, but also earn my degree!  I am under my father's protection and I am able to pursue different interests, while doing school.  
You might ask, "What about me? I do not have a supportive family or the option to stay at home."  We live in a fallen world, so there are situations when stay-at-home daughterhood is not possible.  I urge you to pray and seek the Lord!  He can turn a hard situation into a good one. 

“If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.” James 1:5
I know it is sometimes hard to wait on the Lord...but,
“Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the Lord.” Psalm 27:14
I know He will honor your willingness to let Him lead you.
Every journey is different...concerning what the Lord has planned.  A college education is not for everyone, but
I urge you to embrace the call of daughterhood
1. Allow the Lord to lead you...daughterhood applies to every girl!  :)
2. Daughters have such an influential part in the family...use this season in your life to bring Him glory! 
3. Be thankful for your father's protection and the freedom it gives. 
4. Don't get caught up in living to the world's standards and doing what is "culturally correct"...choose God's best.
In my own life, I am still seeking what the Lord wants me to do.  I have enough credits for an Associate's degree, but right now, I am continuing to pursue my Bachelor's.  There are so many options!  I need the Lord's direction...His perfect plan.  I covet your prayers! 
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Blessings as you seek His will...

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